Honour someone special at St Clare Hospice’s Light up a Life remembrance services
St Clare Hospice’s Light up a Life service is a chance to come together with others who understand what it’s like to grieve the loss of someone special.
Each service is a wonderful inclusive occasion with:
- A moment of reflection for those who have held a special place in our hearts.
- Candles lit, with every shining light representing the life and memories of a loved one.
- Music, readings and refreshments.

St Clare Hospice’s Light up a Life services offer local people the chance to come together to celebrate those they love and miss in the winter months when grief may feel particularly heavy. People can attend a St Clare Light up a Life at the hospice in Hastingwood but also at a community Light up a Life service in churches and venues across West Essex and the borders of East Hertfordshire.

Our Light up a Life services
Find your local Light up a Life service and join us to celebrate the memory of someone special this winter.

Make a virtual dedication
Our virtual Light up a Life tree offers you the chance to make an online tribute to someone you love and miss.

Purchase Light up a Life keepsakes
Purchase your special Light up a Life keepsake decoration. Each keepsake star is more than a decoration – it’s a symbol of love and remembrance.
How your support makes a difference for families we care for
When Dawn’s bowel cancer spread to her spine and pelvis, St Clare Hospice stepped in, giving daughters Fern and Bonnie the chance to simply be daughters again, not carers.
‘Before Mum was at the hospice, my sister and I hadn’t slept for two weeks while we looked after her by ourselves at home. From the moment Mum arrived at St Clare, the weight was taken off our shoulders. Finally, we got the chance to just be her daughters again, instead of her carers,’ Fern, Dawn’s daughter shared.
‘It’s been over a year since Mum died and I don’t ever want to stop speaking about her, even the tough bits. Although Mum is no longer here, she’s still everywhere – in the people who loved her, the stories we tell, the memories we made and all the little things that remind us of our Mum.
‘At this time of year, it feels even more important to feel close to Mum. That’s why I’m dedicating a star to her with St Clare Hospice’s Light up a Life. It feels especially poignant to know my dedication and donation will help another family experience the love and care Mum, Bonnie and I received from the hospice too.’
– Fern, Dawn’s daughter

Frequently Asked Questions
Get in touch
Have a question about Light up a Life? Get in touch our fundraising team who are happy to help you with any queries you have about our remembrance services.